On the Twenty second-Twenty third November 2023, Venus in Libra is reverse Chiron in Aries.
Chiron in Aries is our identification wound. Venus is how we relate to the world, particularly in our 1-to-1 relationships.
Venus reverse Chiron in Aries will reveal the stress between our identification wounds (“Who am I?” “Do I’ve a proper to be right here?”) and our want to be beloved and appreciated by others (Venus in Libra).
Venus reverse Chiron – head to head with the wound
Each time we’re in a relationship—any type of relationship— there’s a refined wrestle between authentically preserving our identification and adapting to othersto allow them to ‘like’ us or at the least settle for us.
Once we relate, we’re in a relentless negotiation between our want for connection and a concern of dropping ourselves.
The opposition is a really fascinating side. The opposition is sort of a full moon – it is the two planets at most distance from one anotherr.
Due to the 180 angle they’ve most visibility.
They appear one another within the eye.
This creates a scenario the place we’re absolutely conscious of the energies at play, but an answer is unimaginable (or appears) unimaginable.
Venus reverse Chiron – Projection
This intense dynamic results in a psychological phenomenon that psychologists name “projection”.
Projection happens once we place our personal unconscious traits or emotions onto others.
With Chiron in Aries reverse Venus in Libra, we really feel one simultaneous want to attach with others and be accepted for who we’re AND a concern of rejection as a result of we’ve proven ‘an excessive amount of’ or as a result of we’ve proven one thing that’s (or we predict is) undesirable.
To deal with the stress of the opposition, we frequently gravitate in the direction of one of many 2 eventualities.
1. We establish with Chiron in Aries.
We really feel divided, conflicted and unloved – and are on the lookout for a associate who can fill that void and make us really feel complete once more.
2. We establish with Venus in Libra people-pleaser.
We’re so wired to prioritize different individuals’s emotions that we do not even know who we’re. In an try and overcompensate, we entice a Chiron in Aries kind associate whose ‘insanity’ and seek for individuality will assist us acknowledge our personal identification.
When these relationship dynamics could be activated, and if these hurtful dynamics will not be acknowledged, we will grow to be trapped in poisonous or abusive relationships that don’t or solely superficially make the most of Chiron’s therapeutic potential.
Thankfully, The Venus-Chiron opposition is supported by Mercury in Sagittariuswhich applies a trine to Chiron and a sextile to Venus.
There IS a method to navigate this dynamic and discover a silver lining. By bringing consciousness to the hurtful patterns that come up throughout this opposition, we will consciously interact in open communication (due to Mercury) about our vulnerabilities and fears.
Once we are unconscious of the Venus-Chiron dynamic, we entice individuals and interact in associated patterns that maintain us trapped within the wound, with no clear path to therapeutic.
Once we as a substitute consciously work with the power of the opposition, we get to the foundation causes of our wounds and heal.
Unconscious methods of coping with a Chiron-Venus wound contain being attracted and attracting individuals to people who set off a victim-perpetrator or narcissist-empath associated dynamic.
Aware methods to take care of a Chiron-Venus wound embody remedy, self-reflection, or a constructive and open dialogue about our emotional wants and vulnerabilities.
Venus Reverse Chiron – The Path to Therapeutic
How do we all know the distinction?
Should you really feel triggered (for higher or worse), magnetically drawn, or inexplicably compelled towards somebody or one thing, then there are seemingly unconscious dynamics at play.
If as a substitute you are feeling weak, but empowered to deal with and perceive these emotions, then you’re seemingly approaching the scenario consciously.
Chiron reverse Venus and trine Mercury is an invite to discover the wounded elements of ourselves with curiosity and kindness as we domesticate genuine connections each with ourselves and others.
Take note of any emotions, relating patterns or insights that come up lately. Concentrate on all upcoming Chiron transits. Do the Chiron work.
The Venus-Chiron opposition is only a teaser – and a possibility to get a style of Chiron’s therapeutic potential.
However one thing a lot larger is coming.
When The North Node will in the end conjunct Chiron (in February 2024) we can have a singular alternative to “break the cycle”, rewrite unhealthy conditioning and grow to be the particular person we are supposed to be.